You don’t decide one day that you will gay. It is part of your makeup whether you like it or not. You can decide to fight it your whole life or you can decide to live the way God made you, but to live contrary to your natural makeup simply because there are studies showing if you live a promiscuous lifestyle your life expectancy is shortened is surely a sad way live. Gay singles and couples that have led a lifestyle of single partners have the life expectancy of any heterosexual pair. Even heterosexual singles that lead very active sexual lifestyles run the risk of a shortened lifespan due to many of the same causes plaguing the gay community. I guess I’m trying to say the gay person really doesn’t have a choice if they want to live a full and happy life. Secondly, you need to read up on your second hand smoke information. It is deadly to non-smokers as well as smokers.